For the past year or so the main topic on my mind has been myself. I've been all about "finding myself" and figuring out who I am, where I stand, my place in the world. I've taken hundreds of personality quizzes, I've read all about psychology, astrology, life paths and any other form of classification I can get my hands on. But the more I read and learn, the more questions I have.
There's no doubt in my mind that I know who I am at this point in my life and am very sure of myself, but with each passing year I change so much. I evolve every day even though it feels like nothing ever changes.
There comes a point where you want to find your place; to belong somewhere. You want to define yourself. The problem is, we are all far too complex to ever fit into one category or definition. After all the searching I've found that no one label or definition will ever summarise me. Am I a daughter, a sister, a friend, an Aquarius, an INFP, a feminist, a survivor? I am all of those things but none of them sum up who I am. A couple of years from now hopefully girlfriend, wife or mother will be added to the list but for now, I need to be okay with being label-less.